Monday, January 25, 2010

Assignment #1: How should one live their life?

Hmmm... how should one live their life? Thats a question i have asked myself more than one should. I at times can be an extremely analytical person so that is one of the many questions that revolve around my mind probably everyday of my life. Before confronting any of my friends or family with such a deep question, i went straight for my music. Listening to music, a therapeutic activity that gives me such clarity when i need it. The two songs that i thought were perfect for the situation were "Get what you give" by the New Radicals and "Put your records on"by Corrine Bailey Rae. After daydreaming and brainstorming, i gained reassurance of the best way to live ones life.

Just this weekend I asked my Papa what does he think are the most important aspects in life considering he has been through 6 decades of life experiences, i figured he'd know. His response was "Chrissy May, you should always have your education". His theory is to always be learning something new and the best way to do so is to travel because there is nothing better than first hand experiences. He also believes that one should reach major lengths with their potential and always push yourself. But most of all he believes the best way to live ones life is to be able to support one's self with an occupation accompanied with great passion.
I sometimes get perturbed when i listen quietly to people, who are dear to me, on their expectations for a fulfilling lifestyle. Some say they wish they were born into media royalty such as being a mainstream actor's son or born with a nat for singing and being able to pay off bills with fame and flourished with pricey objects. When all and all some of the wealthiest persons are the least happiest.

So after listening to music, i come back to my same conclusion that i live by. I believe to achieve happiness we should appreciate the simple things that are priceless. One should be true to themselves with out holding back; loving with an open mind and an open heart, letting some one love you and loving them in return, being selfless, and most of all realizing that happiness is a state of mind. Even the person with the least amount of belongings can be the most satisfied.
Do you let the ones you cherish the most how much you love them?
What is your state of happiness?

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